Many people love to travel to a country inn or B&B for the Thanksgiving or Christmas holidays. It's important to make advance reservations, not only for lodging, but for your holiday meal as well, since many restaurants are booked well in advance for Thanksgiving, and many others close for Christmas.

Many B&Bs stay open during Christmas, but the extent to which the occasion is celebrated varies widely indeed. We know of many inns that decorate beautifully, serve a fabulous meal, and organize all kinds of traditional holiday activities. But we've also visited others, especially in ski areas that do little more than throw a few token ornaments on a tree.

If you'll be traveling by car, allow extra time for traffic and winter weather. If you'll be flying, add even more time for extra security precautions at the airport.

Keep in mind:

• You'll find man-made snow at the ski slopes, but only Mother Nature can guarantee the real stuff. If a drought or thaw leaves the ground bare, remember that Christmas is a state of mind. If you want to be sure of snow, visit in January or February.
• Some inns are closed December 24th and 25th, so be sure to check.
• Be aware that it may not be possible to spend hours Christmas morning opening gifts in front of the tree, the way you would at home.
• Some inns decorate lavishly for Christmas; others just have a simple tree and possibly a Hanukah menorah. Be sure to choose an inn that suits your personal comfort level.
• The holidays can be emotionally challenging. Celebrate the moment; don't relive past disappointments.